I like to think that I'm quite an open person but I feel that social media like Instagram and Twitter can sometimes give quite a narrow view of what a person is really like; I wanted to do this tag so people can see a bit more of how open I like to be & after putting a poll on Twitter people said they wanted to see this so I hope I can give you more of an insight!

Victoria

What is your favourite colour?

Who was your first best friend?

How tall are you?

Cats or dogs?

Funniest moment throughout school?

How many countries have you visited?

Are you in/gone to college?

What was your favourite/worst subject in High School?

What is your favourite drink?

What is your favourite animal?

What is your favourite perfume?

Tea or Coffee?

What would you (or have you) name your children?

What sports do you play/have you played?

What is your favourite book?

Who are some of your favourite YouTubers?

What is your favourite movie?

Are you Single or Taken?

What's your idea of an ideal first date?

How many girlfriends/boyfriends have you had?

Favourite memory from childhood?

Do you speak any different languages and how well?

Do you have any siblings?

How would you describe your fashion sense?

What is your favourite restaurant?

What are some of your favourite tv shows?

PC or Mac?

What phone do you have? (iOS v Android?)

Tell us one of your bad habits!

This isn't a planned post at all but I felt the overwhelming need to write so I am doing. I don't know if I'm the only one this happens to - I imagine not - but lately I just feel like life is really catching up with me and overnight my priorities, wants and needs from life have all changed.

Now a lot of this has been ongoing since the end of last year but recently I find myself flipping from wanting to run away and be single, living off the land; and then the next minute I want marriage, a house, a family. It's so disorienting and I don't quite know how to find balance. Maybe it's the influence from many around me either going off on adventures or settling down and having children (seriously though, like, EVERYONE is having babies right now!)

On a personal level there's been a huge shift for me where I came to the realisation that I am in fact a hoarder and was getting myself into a rather worse situation than I was already in. I managed to tackle it before the hoarding caused much of a cleanliness issue (dust mainly), however I'm now the opposite end of the scale where the sight of mess and clutter induces a panic attack. I want much less 'stuff', no mess and everywhere tidy; unfortunately this isn't an easy thing to achieve as years of hoarding means there's a lot of things to sort through, throw out and clean, which of course takes time. Knowing that there's so much to tackle also becomes very demotivating and instead of getting things done and making progress, things have remained stagnant despite how much I want to sort my life out.

Naturally there are a lot more contributing factors to my situation, including ongoing issues with my health (hence the lack of posting) which is very frustrating but I'm forced to take things day by day. I plan to talk more about health, well-being and how I've tackled my issues in future posts but for now I just wanted to get this off my chest. If any of you can relate to anything mentioned in this post I'm right there with you. It's hard being a certain age and seeing everyone else settle with their life but feel the one who is still mentally flighty, footloose and fancy free!

Do you think there's such a thing as 'age appropriate' behaviour?

Stay curious

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